Wisdom Wednesdays

  • 12/25/24

    MERRY CHRISTMAS!  The Origins of Christmas and How to "Saturnalia" Your Holiday 

  • 12/18/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Deflecting Personal Questions Like a Queen 

  • 12/5/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Hunger for a Higher Power? 

  • 11/27/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Survive the Holidays: The Austrian Princess Method

  • 11/20/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Movie vs TV Show? How to Talk Yourself Off a Ledge

  • 11/14/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The (Christmas) Covenant of the Nerd: Beware of Your Boundaries

  • 11/6/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Literally People Don't Want to Be Better, Just Stop

  • 10/24/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How Being a Bully Saves You From a Victim Narrative 

  • 10/16/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Isolation vs Allies

  • 10/9/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: More Borgia Wisdom: Family Over Everything

  • 10/2/24

    WIDSOM WEDNESDAY: Enemy Updates: Peace Was Never an Option

  • 9/25/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Hit Delete, Babe!

  • 9/18/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Give in to Garbage

  • 9/11/24

    EVIL WEDNESDAY ROME EDITION: Chariots, Charm, Influence and Empires!

  • 9/5/24

    WICKED WEDNESDAY ROME EDITION: The Real Story Behind "Gladiator," Part 2 

  • 8/28/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Get Small to Be Big ๐Ÿ›€๐Ÿป

  • 8/21/24

    EVIL WEDNESDAY: Reality Bites! How to Use People For YOUR Dreams ๐Ÿ‘

  • 8/14/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Life After Guilt: Love, Loss & Who I Destroy Next

  • 8/7/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: What a Victim Narrative ACTUALLY Means ๐Ÿฅ€

  • 7/31/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Fuck 'Em, Fuck IT, and How it Relates to Soft Girl Summer ๐Ÿ–•๐Ÿป๐ŸŽ€ (RE-UPLOAD!)

  • 7/24/24

    Aloha from Hawaii ๐ŸŒบ๐Ÿ: Truly the wildest manifesting story and also Iโ€™m kinda drunk

  • 7/17/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Rot Girl Summer: Why We Need to Be Closed for Feedback (aka: Catholics vs Protestants) ๐Ÿ™Š

  • 7/10/24

    FUCKBOY WEDNESDAY: Mr. Jet's Crash Landing ๐Ÿ’

  • 7/4/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY (again): LET FREEDOM (and taxes) RING ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿฆ…

  • 6/26/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY PODCAST: Why You Need to Take a "Freedom Day" ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ

  • 6/19/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Cognitive Hack to Get Over a Fuckboy (Or Do Anything, Actually)

  • 6/12/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Stop in the Forest: How to Keep Pursuing Your Goals & Development! ๐ŸŒฒ

  • 6/5/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Difference Between Can and Should: The Jurassic Park-ification of Our Lives ๐Ÿฆ–

  • 5/29/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Have Main Character Energy (and Not Wait For Life to Happen!) ๐Ÿ›ฉ๏ธ

  • 5/22/24

    WEEPY WEDNESDAY: ๐Ÿบ๐Ÿ’”

  • 5/15/24

    WEEPY WEDNESDAY: Not So Sweet Charity ๐Ÿ’”

  • 5/8/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Training Season's Over...Part 2 ๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿผ

  • 5/1/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Practice Radical Non-Reaction ๐Ÿค

  • 4/24/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Turning Anxiety to Energy โ˜„๏ธ

  • 4/17/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Have Patience With Someone Else's Impatience ๐Ÿ˜ค

  • 4/10/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Bio Hack Patience ๐Ÿง 

  • 4/4/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Is Trauma a Choice? My Africa Kidnapping Story ๐Ÿ˜

  • 3/27/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Muddling Through the Miserable Mid ๐Ÿ˜’

  • 3/20/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How Haters Give You Power โ˜ข๏ธ

  • 3/13/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Easy Grace of the Upper Class (And How to Get it For Yourself) ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 3/7/24

    RANDOM RAMBLE: The Disruptive Downside of Travel ๐Ÿ˜ž

  • 3/6/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: An Itty Bitty Travel Shallenge

  • 2/28/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Brevity is the Soul of Charm: What We DON'T Say Matters! ๐Ÿคซ

  • 2/21/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Support a Man in Crisis? No Srsly I'm Asking ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ

  • 2/14/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY PODCAST: A Valentineโ€™s Day Pep Talk

  • 2/6/24

    WISDOM (?) WEDNESDAY: Clowntown vs Imposter Syndrome

  • 1/31/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Love Thy Enemy? Bruh.

  • 1/24/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Calculate the Cost of Mediocrity ๐Ÿงฎ

  • 1/24/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Calculate the Cost of Mediocrity

  • 1/23/24

    WEDNESDAY HELLO: Birthdays and Blessings ๐Ÿฅณ

  • 1/17/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Uber Ride That Turned Me into a Man

  • 1/17/24

    EVIL THURSDAY: Lily/Rose and the Busted Birthday

  • 1/10/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY GRWM: Boundaries and Barriers

  • 1/3/24

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY GLOW UP EDITION: 2 Easy Ways to Set and Enforce Boundaries!

  • 12/27/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY PODCAST: New Yearโ€™s Words & VIP Energy!

  • 12/20/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Let Go of the Holiday "Shoulds"

  • 12/13/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Not Participate in Comparison

  • 12/6/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Closed For Feedback

  • 11/29/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Not Everyone is Meant to Evolve

    XO, Shallon

  • 11/22/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY PODCAST: How to Survive the Holidays with Difficult Family

    XO, Shallon

  • 11/15/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY PODCAST: When Emotion Meets Ruthlessness (alternatively titled: guess the fuck what my friends are fakes)

    XO, Shallon

  • 11/8/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: It's Not Your Problem, Actually

    XO, Shallon

  • 11/1/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Welcome to NOvember

    XO, Shallon

  • 10/25/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Regret

    XO, Shallon

  • 10/10/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: A Breakdown on What Boundaries ACTUALLY Mean!

    XO, Shallon

  • 10/4/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Itโ€™s Not Youโ€”Everything DOES Kinda Suck Right Now

    XO, Shallon

  • 9/27/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Find Your Rhinestone Hostage

    XO, Shallon

  • 9/20/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Are You Prepared For the BEST Case Scenario?

    XO, Shallon

  • 9/18/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Beck and Call

    XO, Shallon

  • 9/13/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: A CBT Trick or Two

    XO, Shallon

  • 9/6/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Free Pass

    XO, Shallon

  • 8/30/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Home Is Wherever You Are

    XO, Shallon

  • 8/23/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Sticky Friends & Clean Hands ๐Ÿงผ

    XO, Shallon

  • 8/16/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: May My Spleen Guide Me

  • 8/9/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY PODCAST: The Affirmation Trick Everyone Needs

    XO, Shallon

  • 8/2/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: A Pep Talk Against Your Inner Crysta

  • 7/26/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Crucial Concept of Energy Budgeting

    XO, Shallon

  • 7/19/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How To Take Control Of Your Health

    XO, Shallon

  • 7/12/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Hit The Target, Not The Bullseye

    XO, Shallon

  • 7/5/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: Reminder: Their Problem Is THEIR Problem

    XO, Shallon

  • 6/28/23

    UNWISE WEDNESDAY: Reckless Beau-havior, UPDATE

    XO, Shallon

  • 6/28/23

    UNWISE WEDNESDAY: Reckless Beau-havior

    XO, Shallon

  • 6/21/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: An Easy Affirmation Against Codependency

    XO, Shallon

  • 6/21/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: An Easy Affirmation Against Codependency

    XO, Shallon

  • 6/14/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How Hard do you Push a Friend Towards a Goal?

    XO, Shallon

  • 6/8/23

    (sorta wonky) WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How To Travel!

  • 5/31/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: Big Little Lies?

    XO, Shallon

  • 5/24/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM RANT: Fillers vs Additives

    XO, Shallon

  • 5/17/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Should Your Boyfriend Have Your Same Love Language?

    XO, Shallon

  • 5/10/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How I Stay Grounded (In The Bad Way)

    XO, Shallon

  • 5/3/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM STORYTIME:
    Am I A Verified Hypocrite?

  • 4/26/23

    WTF WEDNESDAY: Can Someone Explain The Cesspool That Is Reddit Fandoms??

    XO, Shallon

  • 4/19/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM STORYTIME: The Odd Upside To A Quiet Viking

    XO, Shallon

  • 4/12/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM AIRPORT PODCAST

    XO, Shallon

  • 4/1/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY BONUS VIDEO: The Great Friendship Clean Out of 2023

    XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 3/29/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY DEBATE: Gun Control In America: What Would You Do?

    XO, Shallon

  • 3/15/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: You Aren't Wrong Needing To Be Treated Right

    XO, Shallon

  • 3/8/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: The Questions Series, Part 3

    XO, Shallon

  • 2/15/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY STORYTIME: The Questions Series, Pt 1

  • 2/8/23

    NOT SO WISE WEDNESDAY STORYTIME: Things Fall Apart

    XO, Shallon

  • 2/1/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How To Deal With Dreamers

    XO, Shallon

  • 1/25/23

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: The Power of AND

    XO, Shallon

  • 1/18/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Why It's Okโ€”Crucial, Actuallyโ€”To Tell People What You Need

    XO,

  • 1/11/23

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY BONUS VIDEO: A Solo Travel Shallenge

    XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 12/28/22

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: "When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas conquered long ago." ~Friedrich Nietzche

    XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 12/14/22

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: "It's not the absence of fear. It's overcoming it. Sometimes you've got to blast through and have faith."-Emma Watson

  • 12/7/22

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM VIDEO: To Filter Or Not To Filter? ๐Ÿค” XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 11/23/22

    Wednesday Wisdom: Holiday Help For Introverts, Pt. 1 ๐Ÿค XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 11/16/22

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM STORYTIME: How is NOvember Going? ๐Ÿšฎ XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 11/10/22

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM STORYTIME: How To Prevent Drunk Fights ๐Ÿ™„ XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 11/2/22

    Wisdom Wednesday Storytime: NOvember Is Here ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 10/26/22

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How To Hack Hormones Part 4: Dopamine! ๐ŸŽˆXO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 10/19/22

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How To Hack Hormones Part 4: Serotonin! ๐ŸŽˆXO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 10/12/22

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How To Hack Hormones Part 2: Oxytocin! ๐ŸŽˆXO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 12/21/22

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: My Holiday Diet Tips

    XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 10/5/22

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How To Hack Hormones Part 1: Endorphins! ๐ŸŽˆXO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 9/28/22

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Canโ€™t play hard to get? Me neither girl. I have to BE hard to get. Fill your schedule, have rigid routines, and surround yourself with fulfilling things and friends. Last-minute women are not seen as high-value women.

    When are you most susceptible to a fuckboy? Tell me in the Telegram chat! XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 9/21/22

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How Marriage Changes People ๐Ÿ’ XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 9/14/22

    WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How To Stop Feeling Guilty For Saying No. XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 9/7/22

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: โ€œThe greatest obstacle to living is expectation, which depends on tomorrow and wastes today.โ€ ~Seneca, Roman Stoic philosopher, 4 BC-64 AD. XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 8/31/22

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Remember that the pain of discipline is much less than the pain of regret.

    What will you regret not being more disciplined about? Do it. XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 08/17/22

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Remember: โ€œNoโ€ is a complete sentence. Practice being short โ€˜nโ€™ sweet when saying no: donโ€™t explain and definitely donโ€™t apologize. Here are some scripts:

    โ€œI must disappoint you and say no.โ€

    โ€œI canโ€™t make your improv show but Iโ€™m so proud of you, knock em dead!โ€

    โ€œKids just arenโ€™t in the cards for us.โ€

    โ€œI donโ€™t do anal, Kyle.โ€

    Ironically, anyone who acts like they deserve an explanation...doesnโ€™t. XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 08/10/22

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Donโ€™t put a question mark where the universe has put a period. State your truth as exactly that: a statement. Not a conversation or negotiation.

    Boldly close doors and life rewards you by boldly opening new and better ones! XO, Shallon ๐Ÿ‘‘

  • 08/3/22

    WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Ignore first tier consequencesโ€”look at second tier rewards.

    For example, exercise. First tier consequences = it sucks. Second tier rewards = you get hotter.

    Same with eating well, studying, saving money, dating quality guys.

    Where else are you ONLY looking at first tier consequences and ignoring second tier payoffs? XO, Shallon๐Ÿ‘‘