

Wisdom Wednesdays
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12/25/24
MERRY CHRISTMAS! The Origins of Christmas and How to "Saturnalia" Your Holiday
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12/18/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Deflecting Personal Questions Like a Queen
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12/5/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Hunger for a Higher Power?
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11/27/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Survive the Holidays: The Austrian Princess Method
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11/20/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Movie vs TV Show? How to Talk Yourself Off a Ledge
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11/14/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The (Christmas) Covenant of the Nerd: Beware of Your Boundaries
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11/6/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Literally People Don't Want to Be Better, Just Stop
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10/24/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How Being a Bully Saves You From a Victim Narrative
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10/16/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Isolation vs Allies
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10/9/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: More Borgia Wisdom: Family Over Everything
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10/2/24
WIDSOM WEDNESDAY: Enemy Updates: Peace Was Never an Option
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9/25/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Hit Delete, Babe!
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9/18/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Give in to Garbage
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9/11/24
EVIL WEDNESDAY ROME EDITION: Chariots, Charm, Influence and Empires!
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9/5/24
WICKED WEDNESDAY ROME EDITION: The Real Story Behind "Gladiator," Part 2
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8/28/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Get Small to Be Big ๐๐ป
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8/21/24
EVIL WEDNESDAY: Reality Bites! How to Use People For YOUR Dreams ๐
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8/14/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Life After Guilt: Love, Loss & Who I Destroy Next
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8/7/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: What a Victim Narrative ACTUALLY Means ๐ฅ
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7/31/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Fuck 'Em, Fuck IT, and How it Relates to Soft Girl Summer ๐๐ป๐ (RE-UPLOAD!)
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7/24/24
Aloha from Hawaii ๐บ๐: Truly the wildest manifesting story and also Iโm kinda drunk
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7/17/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Rot Girl Summer: Why We Need to Be Closed for Feedback (aka: Catholics vs Protestants) ๐
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7/10/24
FUCKBOY WEDNESDAY: Mr. Jet's Crash Landing ๐
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7/4/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY (again): LET FREEDOM (and taxes) RING ๐บ๐ธ๐ฆ
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6/26/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY PODCAST: Why You Need to Take a "Freedom Day" ๐บ๐ธ
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6/19/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Cognitive Hack to Get Over a Fuckboy (Or Do Anything, Actually)
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6/12/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Stop in the Forest: How to Keep Pursuing Your Goals & Development! ๐ฒ
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6/5/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Difference Between Can and Should: The Jurassic Park-ification of Our Lives ๐ฆ
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5/29/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Have Main Character Energy (and Not Wait For Life to Happen!) ๐ฉ๏ธ
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5/22/24
WEEPY WEDNESDAY: ๐บ๐
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5/15/24
WEEPY WEDNESDAY: Not So Sweet Charity ๐
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5/8/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Training Season's Over...Part 2 ๐๐ผ
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5/1/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Practice Radical Non-Reaction ๐ค
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4/24/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Turning Anxiety to Energy โ๏ธ
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4/17/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Have Patience With Someone Else's Impatience ๐ค
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4/10/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Bio Hack Patience ๐ง
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4/4/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Is Trauma a Choice? My Africa Kidnapping Story ๐
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3/27/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Muddling Through the Miserable Mid ๐
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3/20/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How Haters Give You Power โข๏ธ
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3/13/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Easy Grace of the Upper Class (And How to Get it For Yourself) ๐
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3/7/24
RANDOM RAMBLE: The Disruptive Downside of Travel ๐
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3/6/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: An Itty Bitty Travel Shallenge
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2/28/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Brevity is the Soul of Charm: What We DON'T Say Matters! ๐คซ
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2/21/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Support a Man in Crisis? No Srsly I'm Asking ๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ
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2/14/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY PODCAST: A Valentineโs Day Pep Talk
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2/6/24
WISDOM (?) WEDNESDAY: Clowntown vs Imposter Syndrome
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1/31/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Love Thy Enemy? Bruh.
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1/24/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Calculate the Cost of Mediocrity ๐งฎ
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1/24/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Calculate the Cost of Mediocrity
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1/23/24
WEDNESDAY HELLO: Birthdays and Blessings ๐ฅณ
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1/17/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Uber Ride That Turned Me into a Man
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1/17/24
EVIL THURSDAY: Lily/Rose and the Busted Birthday
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1/10/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY GRWM: Boundaries and Barriers
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1/3/24
WISDOM WEDNESDAY GLOW UP EDITION: 2 Easy Ways to Set and Enforce Boundaries!
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12/27/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY PODCAST: New Yearโs Words & VIP Energy!
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12/20/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Let Go of the Holiday "Shoulds"
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12/13/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How to Not Participate in Comparison
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12/6/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Closed For Feedback
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11/29/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Not Everyone is Meant to Evolve
XO, Shallon
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11/22/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY PODCAST: How to Survive the Holidays with Difficult Family
XO, Shallon
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11/15/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY PODCAST: When Emotion Meets Ruthlessness (alternatively titled: guess the fuck what my friends are fakes)
XO, Shallon
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11/8/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: It's Not Your Problem, Actually
XO, Shallon
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11/1/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Welcome to NOvember
XO, Shallon
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10/25/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Regret
XO, Shallon
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10/10/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: A Breakdown on What Boundaries ACTUALLY Mean!
XO, Shallon
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10/4/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Itโs Not YouโEverything DOES Kinda Suck Right Now
XO, Shallon
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9/27/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Find Your Rhinestone Hostage
XO, Shallon
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9/20/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Are You Prepared For the BEST Case Scenario?
XO, Shallon
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9/18/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Beck and Call
XO, Shallon
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9/13/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: A CBT Trick or Two
XO, Shallon
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9/6/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Free Pass
XO, Shallon
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8/30/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Home Is Wherever You Are
XO, Shallon
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8/23/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Sticky Friends & Clean Hands ๐งผ
XO, Shallon
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8/16/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: May My Spleen Guide Me
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8/9/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY PODCAST: The Affirmation Trick Everyone Needs
XO, Shallon
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8/2/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: A Pep Talk Against Your Inner Crysta
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7/26/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: The Crucial Concept of Energy Budgeting
XO, Shallon
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7/19/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How To Take Control Of Your Health
XO, Shallon
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7/12/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Hit The Target, Not The Bullseye
XO, Shallon
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7/5/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: Reminder: Their Problem Is THEIR Problem
XO, Shallon
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6/28/23
UNWISE WEDNESDAY: Reckless Beau-havior, UPDATE
XO, Shallon
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6/28/23
UNWISE WEDNESDAY: Reckless Beau-havior
XO, Shallon
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6/21/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: An Easy Affirmation Against Codependency
XO, Shallon
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6/21/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: An Easy Affirmation Against Codependency
XO, Shallon
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6/14/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How Hard do you Push a Friend Towards a Goal?
XO, Shallon
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6/8/23
(sorta wonky) WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How To Travel!
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5/31/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: Big Little Lies?
XO, Shallon
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5/24/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM RANT: Fillers vs Additives
XO, Shallon
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5/17/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Should Your Boyfriend Have Your Same Love Language?
XO, Shallon
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5/10/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How I Stay Grounded (In The Bad Way)
XO, Shallon
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5/3/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM STORYTIME:
Am I A Verified Hypocrite? -
4/26/23
WTF WEDNESDAY: Can Someone Explain The Cesspool That Is Reddit Fandoms??
XO, Shallon
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4/19/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM STORYTIME: The Odd Upside To A Quiet Viking
XO, Shallon
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4/12/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM AIRPORT PODCAST
XO, Shallon
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4/1/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY BONUS VIDEO: The Great Friendship Clean Out of 2023
XO, Shallon ๐
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3/29/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY DEBATE: Gun Control In America: What Would You Do?
XO, Shallon
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3/15/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: You Aren't Wrong Needing To Be Treated Right
XO, Shallon
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3/8/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: The Questions Series, Part 3
XO, Shallon
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2/15/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY STORYTIME: The Questions Series, Pt 1
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2/8/23
NOT SO WISE WEDNESDAY STORYTIME: Things Fall Apart
XO, Shallon
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2/1/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How To Deal With Dreamers
XO, Shallon
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1/25/23
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: The Power of AND
XO, Shallon
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1/18/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Why It's OkโCrucial, ActuallyโTo Tell People What You Need
XO,
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1/11/23
WISDOM WEDNESDAY BONUS VIDEO: A Solo Travel Shallenge
XO, Shallon ๐
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12/28/22
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: "When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas conquered long ago." ~Friedrich Nietzche
XO, Shallon ๐
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12/14/22
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: "It's not the absence of fear. It's overcoming it. Sometimes you've got to blast through and have faith."-Emma Watson
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12/7/22
WEDNESDAY WISDOM VIDEO: To Filter Or Not To Filter? ๐ค XO, Shallon ๐
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11/23/22
Wednesday Wisdom: Holiday Help For Introverts, Pt. 1 ๐ค XO, Shallon ๐
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11/16/22
WEDNESDAY WISDOM STORYTIME: How is NOvember Going? ๐ฎ XO, Shallon ๐
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11/10/22
WEDNESDAY WISDOM STORYTIME: How To Prevent Drunk Fights ๐ XO, Shallon ๐
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11/2/22
Wisdom Wednesday Storytime: NOvember Is Here ๐ ๐ผโโ๏ธ XO, Shallon ๐
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10/26/22
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How To Hack Hormones Part 4: Dopamine! ๐XO, Shallon ๐
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10/19/22
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How To Hack Hormones Part 4: Serotonin! ๐XO, Shallon ๐
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10/12/22
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How To Hack Hormones Part 2: Oxytocin! ๐XO, Shallon ๐
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12/21/22
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: My Holiday Diet Tips
XO, Shallon ๐
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10/5/22
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: How To Hack Hormones Part 1: Endorphins! ๐XO, Shallon ๐
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9/28/22
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Canโt play hard to get? Me neither girl. I have to BE hard to get. Fill your schedule, have rigid routines, and surround yourself with fulfilling things and friends. Last-minute women are not seen as high-value women.
When are you most susceptible to a fuckboy? Tell me in the Telegram chat! XO, Shallon ๐
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9/21/22
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How Marriage Changes People ๐ XO, Shallon ๐
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9/14/22
WEDNESDAY WISDOM: How To Stop Feeling Guilty For Saying No. XO, Shallon ๐
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9/7/22
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: โThe greatest obstacle to living is expectation, which depends on tomorrow and wastes today.โ ~Seneca, Roman Stoic philosopher, 4 BC-64 AD. XO, Shallon ๐
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8/31/22
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Remember that the pain of discipline is much less than the pain of regret.
What will you regret not being more disciplined about? Do it. XO, Shallon ๐
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08/17/22
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Remember: โNoโ is a complete sentence. Practice being short โnโ sweet when saying no: donโt explain and definitely donโt apologize. Here are some scripts:
โI must disappoint you and say no.โ
โI canโt make your improv show but Iโm so proud of you, knock em dead!โ
โKids just arenโt in the cards for us.โ
โI donโt do anal, Kyle.โ
Ironically, anyone who acts like they deserve an explanation...doesnโt. XO, Shallon ๐
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08/10/22
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Donโt put a question mark where the universe has put a period. State your truth as exactly that: a statement. Not a conversation or negotiation.
Boldly close doors and life rewards you by boldly opening new and better ones! XO, Shallon ๐
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08/3/22
WISDOM WEDNESDAY: Ignore first tier consequencesโlook at second tier rewards.
For example, exercise. First tier consequences = it sucks. Second tier rewards = you get hotter.
Same with eating well, studying, saving money, dating quality guys.
Where else are you ONLY looking at first tier consequences and ignoring second tier payoffs? XO, Shallon๐